Top 5 Pick Up Tips for Women Out On the Town

2009-01-10T00:00:00-05:00

Top 5 Pick Up Tips For Women When Out on the Town

For the woman who wants to go out on the town, enjoy a little nightlife and pick up a man, a few tips can help greatly. It’s always a dicey situation for women, as they need to play the game, and for some guys the game means you have to let him think he’s picking you up. By learning a little more about how to tip the game in your favor, you can be well on your way to picking up a great guy.

1.    A STATEMENT OF THE REAL YOU
Pay attention to your appearance. Sloppy never works when you are looking to pick up a guy unless you really are drop dead gorgeous. Dress neatly, but sexily too. Choose outfits that accentuate your assets but that are not too risqué. You don’t want to look like a hooker but you also don’t want to be all buttoned down and serious. Wear heels if you are comfortable in them; they add a touch of femininity that many guys love. Take care with your hair, so that it looks good but is also touchable. The helmet look does not appeal to men. Moderate makeup and a feminine scent are also nice touches.

2.    THE UNSPOKEN LANGUAGE
Act confident and happy. If you look nervous, uncomfortable, ill at ease or unhappy, you also seem unapproachable. Don’t stand in a corner alone, looking like a stalker. The brooding look is not as sexy as books make it sound. Make an effort to smile lots; especially at the people you are talking to, as it makes you seem more fun loving. Be careful with your body language. Don’t cross your arms, rest your chin on your hands or hold yourself in a tense position. Stay relaxed, occasionally flip your hair or tilt your head to signal to the object of your interest that you are indeed interested.

3. JUST A GLANCE
Check out the guys in the room carefully but don’t make it look like you’re waiting for one particular person. When you find a guy who interests you, make eye contact and hold it for a few moments. Smile at him and glance away. Glance back and smile again. No need for the 1,000 yard stare here ladies.

4.        LET'S SEE WHAT HE'S ABOUT
If he approaches you, great! Keep the conversation light and flowing. Don’t drift onto serious subjects or anything too personal. Be honest. Touch his arm occasionally while talking. Guys interpret this as a sign that you are into them.

5.    MEN LIKE CONFIDENT WOMEN
If he doesn’t make the first move, you should. Move to the area of the room that he is in and “accidentally” bump into him. Excuse yourself and smile. If he turns away then you have your answer and should move on. If he starts to chat with you, then you are well on your way to success.

Put these tips to work for you by choosing the nightlife spot that has the best selection of eligible bachelors and get started. By using what you have learned above, you will find that you will have tons of luck when trying to pick up a great guy.

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Top 5 Pick Up Tips for Women Out On the Town