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Top 10 Pick Up Tips for Men Out On the Town


Every single guy should have an arsenal of tips for those times when he is out enjoying the nightlife and looking to pick up women. Many tips are pretty common sense, but still need to be stated because so many guys overlook details that women zoom in on. By following these tips, you’ll be much more successful in your pick up attempts.


1.    Don’t dress like a dork. Wear a nice outfit and pay attention to fashion. Make sure items match and are clean. If it needs ironing, iron it. Stay away from combinations like socks and sandals, dress shirts and shorts and work out clothes, especially sweat pants.


2.    Grooming counts with women.  If going for the scruffy look, at least trim so there is a neat line at the edge of your beard. It shows you have made an effort. Brush your teeth. Clean your fingernails. Wear a nice scent.


3.    Don’t use tired lines that you’ve seen on sitcoms. Women have seen those shows too. You can however, make a funny comment about pick up lines from TV shows as an opener.


4.    Work on appearing confident and hiding anxiety. It curbs your appeal if you seem ill at ease. Be aware of any nervous habits you might have and try to stop yourself from doing them.


5.    Go to clubs with friends. You appear much less creepy than if you are there alone. In fact going with a group that includes women will add to the impression you give.


6.    Make eye contact and evaluate the situation before moving forward. Make sure the woman actually looks interested in you. Watch and see if she seems to be waiting for someone or if she is checking you out. Paying attention to such details will tell you if you should move forward or move on.


7.    Approach her in a relaxed manner and open with a simple hello, followed by a funny line to break the tension and make her laugh. Ask open-ended questions and be a good listener. Women are impressed by men who are good conversationalists, not by braggarts nor withdrawn individuals.


8.    Maintain a lively conversation by knowing something about current events and about the things that women typically find interesting. Prepare in advance, by thinking about the things you can possibly talk about, so you are not stuck for conversation.


9.    If you get struck down, do not immediately try to hit on someone else. Women will notice that you are indiscriminately trying to pick someone up until you succeed and your chances of success will drop dramatically.


10.    Timing is very important when it comes to picking up a woman. If the nightlife is starting to wind down, your chances of a successful pickup are much higher.


Being able to pick up women when you are out on the town will make a huge difference in how much you enjoy the nightlife where you live. If you get shot down every time you go out, you will soon get a dislike for nightlife. Put these top 10 tips to work for you and in no time, you’ll have a winning streak going.